Sponsored Rider, Pam

Cultivating Confidence November 16 2019

Courage is the price that life exacts for granting peace

Those words are the beginning of a poem by Amelia Earhart that I read every morning when I was 17 years of age and learning to fly. It’s what motivated me, a girl from the wrong side of the tracks to get up and show up every day, ready to learn.

Long story short, I got my pilots licence just after my 18thbirthday – before I learnt how to drive – and met the love of my life, my husband of almost 20 years. A life was born, simply by reading those words.


But as I have aged, started a family and learnt that I do not bounce, that courage has somewhat disappeared, and just the thought of getting in the saddle, something I have loved since a child, fills me with fear.


I know many of us struggle with our confidence as we age – so what can we do about it?


Having a supportive network is crucial to success. A supportive instructor and family who can help drive you and help you to find your confidence is invaluable.


There is also a number of fantastic confidence courses out there. I have personally joined Joyride run by my friend Jane Pike to help me cultivate confidence. Look for a program that really speaks to you.


And the last and biggest hurdle in between you and being a confident rider is commitment. I am classic for deciding I just can’t do it today, and the more time out of the saddle, the greater my hesitation becomes. Set yourself a simple task and do it! Mine is bum in the saddle. I am super lucky that Zeus tends to wander off when my bum hits the saddle and all of a sudden, I have to gather up my reins and ride. Which reminds me how much I love being up there – then I don’t want to get off.


I’m also making another commitment as I begin my journey to courage and confidence. Just as I did every morning before I got in an aeroplane and flew, I will read Amelia’s poem and find the courage so that those beautiful experiences you can only have in the saddle actually happen.


Courage is the price that Life exact for granting peace.

The soul that knows it not

Knows no release from little things:

Knows not the livid loneliness of fear,

Nor mountain heights where bitter

joy can hear

The sound of wings.

How can life grant us boon of living,


For dull gray ugliness and pregnant


Unless we dare

The soul's dominion? Each time we

make a choice, we pay

With courage to behold the resistless


And count it fair.


How do you find confidence in the saddle? Share your tips!

Beating the Winter Blues - Part 2 July 14 2019

Sponsored Rider, Pamela Tomlinson tells us how she beats the winter horseback blues.

Do It For Dolly May 10 2019

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Riding In The Heat December 20 2018

In the saddle – in the heat
Summer can be a tough time to go riding, but long days and holidays makes it a great time to get some hours up in the saddle.  
Thankfully rider wear has come a long way from a few years ago and you get some lovely, cool things to ride in.  
The Mane Event tights are lightweight, with mesh panels and don’t compromise on grip. And boy are they comfy! In summer, I won’t ride in anything else. They wick away any sweat and if you are going for a nice hack to the beach or river, they dry in no time!
When competing I prefer to wear the Bella Lace Competition Shirt. I sweat like crazy on hot days, especially on my back and the lace panel adds some breathability before I pop on my jacket and head into the ring, and I love its timeless, elegant look.  
If you’re heading into the ring the Fits Kimberley PerformMAX will keep you cool without compromising on style. They wick away the moisture and the power mesh keeps your lower leg cool under boots.  
So now with amazing rider wear which you can tailor to all seasons, you can look super smart, be super comfy and enjoy a super summer. Just don’t forget your Rubenesque Rider cap, sunscreen and a bottle of water!  

Preparing for Fire 🔥 November 04 2018

Firstly, a disclaimer, I am in no way an expert of bushfires, or our horse’s behaviours in them, but the below is what I have noticed owning horses in a bushfire prone areas and these tips might just help.


Have a fire plan! I cannot stress this enough, but have a plan in place. As someone who is on agistment, I have two fire plans. One that the property has, and then one that I have. Generally agistment ones will cover everything you need, but you know your own horse and if he is likely to panic, load on the float easily etc. Ours is below as an example.


Zeus’ fire plan.


1. If the fire weather is forecast catastrophic and/or the ACT Government ask us to enact our bushfire plans and/or EPIC (Showgrounds) is opened for evacuations, we will take Zeus there as soon as possible, regardless of any active bushfires.
2. If there is a bushfire in the vicinity (within 20km) and the weather conditions indicate we could be in the path of the fire, we will evacuate Zeus to a safe place, preferably EPIC, or a friend’s property.
3. If there is a bushfire within 10km and it is safe to do so, we will attempt to evacuate Zeus to a safe property.
4. If it is not safe to evacuate Zeus, we will remove all rugs and gear and ensure he has identification markers on him.
5. If it is not safe to attend the property, or the fire has become too close for us to leave, we will take the lead of the owners of the property to make decisions they feel are best, being closest to the situation.


Get in touch with your local fire brigade, or local Facebook groups. We’re so lucky in Canberra to have this amazing community of equestrians. We have a Facebook group dedicated to equine emergencies, and the lovely people who run this regularly work with the local emergency services, and coordinate evacuations on the day. These groups have really helped me to keep up to date with what is going on, and how I can help. They have also provided fantastic advice also.

Quite a few of the local fire brigades will also hold sessions on large animal evacuations, so get in touch. If you are at a big agistment facility, see if they can come out and talk to you all, or perhaps organise a chat at your local adult riding club.


Get your horse loading well on the float! Zeus is not the biggest fan of the float by any stretch of the imagination. (Another blog post for another time), so we are trying to get him used to getting on the float quick smart. It’s well worth having a few fire drills, just to get them used to loading quickly! In the front of a fire, the last thing you want to find out is that your horse won’t load putting you both in danger.


Be prepared. During the midst of an emergency evacuation is not the time to be trying to find buckets, spare headstalls, feed etc. At the beginning of each fire season, get these items aside (in your float if you can) so once again you can just load your horse. As a minimum, you’ll need buckets for water, a basic first aid kit and a spare halter and lead rein. I make up my horses feeds in advance, so I can save time on the feed run after work, but also so I can just grab a bag and go.


Be realistic and ready for anything, including tough decisions Your plan is just that, a plan, and sometimes, things do not go to plan at all. Don’t risk your own life in the path of the fire if it all becomes too close. As you can see, step 5 in my fire plan is hope for the best. Fires move quickly, and I can’t risk my life, or the lives of my family to save Zeus. You can do everything you possibly can, but be aware of the conditions and ALWAYS take the advice of the emergency services in attendance, who are trained and know what is likely to happen.

Pam’s Top Tips To Returning To Riding As An Adult November 03 2018

We’ve all been there, careers, children, saving to buy a house. Life catches up with us and our childhood riding dreams are temporarily put on hold, while we learn to adult.  
We are still obsessed with horses, I know my neck cranes as we drive past someone riding, or I’ll stay up to goodness knows when to watch the eventing on the other side of the world. Our passion never leaves us, and eventually, we are in the position to get back into riding.  
And here are a few tips that might help you get back on the horse…
  • 1. Find a good riding school. After a few years out of the saddle, and a few bad habits long forgotten, it is a great idea to find a local riding school with lovely quiet horses and accredited instructors. Our bodies change as we get older (we certainly don’t bounce like we did as kids) and it provides us a chance to get our riding fitness back without being overly committed to looking after a horse full time.
As adults, we’ve usually moved away from our home towns. I’m 800km from mine and attending a riding school helps us to make new horsey friends, get recommendations for local farriers, vets etc as well as find out when suitable horses come up on the market...which brings me to point two.
  • 2. Don’t rush finding your unicorn! When you are ready to make the commitment to buy your first horse as an adult rider, don’t rush it! Unfortunately, the horse world hasn’t changed that much, and there will be plenty of unsuitable mounts out there being advertised as something amazing. It took me almost 12 months to find my dork, and I’m so glad for every horse I called up about and didn’t see, or every horse I went to see and didn’t ride as it made it so much more special when I found him.
Also, remember, you can ride. I can’t stress enough that with littlies around, you need a safe horse, but ensure you buy something that is going to challenge you a bit. There are plenty of safe, challenging horses out there, and it helps to feel like your achieving something in your riding. My boy and I both suffer from nerves, so every ride for me is a challenge, but every good ride is amazing. Over our two years together, our bond is so strong, and I can’t imagine life without him!
  • 3. Be kind on yourself. You might be a career woman, you might be a wife, you might be a mother, the breadwinner, or a combination or all of the above. Some weeks you might barely get to see your horse, except as a silhouette in an otherwise dark feed run, or you may only ride a few times during winter; you have kids sports on the weekend, you have to work late, feed the kids etc, and this is completely OK! Don’t feel guilty because your horse is sitting in the paddock while you are living life, or feel pressured because others are able to ride every night. Their commitments are different to yours. Your horse is an opportunity to escape the day to day, and even a simple brush on the weekends will go a long way to keeping you and your horse happy. It’s about you and getting some ‘you’ time, or as my instructor says, ‘you do you’.
  • 4. Embrace your new community. You are now a member of the returning to ride as adult’s club. That brings a lot of joy and with it, amazing new friends. I have found a lot of horsey friends online, in various social media groups, based around dressage and increasing rider confidence, as well as at local riding clubs, events and even work!
I have also spent a lot of time researching products. The joy of returning to ride as an adult, you generally have a healthier budget to spend on flash horse things and, in some ways, equestrian products have moved on quite a bit. There is a lot more products out there for plus sized riders, such as myself, higher quality saddles and bridles, rugs, horse care products…the list goes on, and it can be a little daunting. This where you can ask for advice from your new community!
  • 5. Remember why you loved the sport in the first place! What made you first fall in love with horses in the first place? Think back to that and feel that joy within you. That is why you are doing it now.
I was never a huge competitor, didn’t attend pony club much, but for me, horses just complete my soul. There is something special about that horse you bond with and I try and remember that when I’m scratching my gorgeous dorks head through the fence as I rush to feed him in high heels and a skirt, on the way home from work before I have to take the kids to sport. Just enjoy the privilege of having such a special soul in your life.
What tips do you have for an adult returning to riding? Or perhaps stories you would like to share about your journey. Share them with us

A Horse Crazy Lady Goes To Badminton August 02 2018

Our sponsored rider, Pamela, fulfils a lifelong dream at Badminton.